Logo

How does one succeed in life?

12.06.2025 03:42

How does one succeed in life?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Does not procrastinate.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

What are your funniest "lost in translation" moments if you grew up speaking more than one language?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Valerie Bertinelli Shares the Trader Joe’s Snack She’s ‘Addicted’ to — and Walked Around a Store 3 Times to Find - AOL.com

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Why do humans sweat while stressed?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Ask yourself:

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

‘The market is as clueless as the Fed’: Why this trader says stocks could continue to do well for months - MarketWatch

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

What were the first few days, weeks, months and then years like after finding out about your spouses infidelity? How did your feelings, and yours & their approach to the situation change in the immediate aftermath compared to later down the line?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Can a mother forget her child after she puts him or her up for adoption?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Sometime ago, the Iranian Minister said that a US Navy aircraft carrier would be an easy target for 300 speed boats armed with Katyusha rocket launchers. Is this true?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

That's it for today.

Making more friends is a goal.

What's the gayest thing you have experienced on an only boys sleepover?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Has anyone ever made you take off your shirt?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Are there any nude pictures of women with big tits?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

What is your opinion on the band Nickelback? Why do they receive criticism from some people?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Can a hoodoo or candle spell be used to remove a love spell placed on someone by another person? What is the difference between voodoo and hoodoo?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Paris Erupts in Celebrations, Riots After PSG Wins Champions League - WSJ

What I need from you?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

I’m a 25 year old teacher teaching at boys school & I have colleagues younger than me. I caught one of my students telling her he wanted her as his teacher instead & it hurt my feelings. They compliment her a lot. It makes me jealous. What do I do?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Hangs out with loser friends.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Procrastinates a lot.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.